Category Archives: Love

More tomorrow-MKMMA Week 23

Week from hell. Will post more tomorrow when I’m in a better space.

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A Life Begins – MKMMA Week 20

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Marshal James born February 19, 2016…my 7th grandchild.

What an amazingly extraordinary and emotional thing it is to be born unto this world. The beginning of life. Tears flowed at my first sight of this precious little sweetheart. So fragile and helpless. I am instantly in LOVE.

And so it begins…Day 1

We (Marshal’s family) get to protect and guide and love this little guy as long as we can. In a short time he’ll begin to experience some independence and then more and more until the time that he’s on his own. We want to protect him from the difficulties of life but we know that it’s often the hard times that build our strength and character. We also know that he’s going to make up ‘stupid crap’ in his head that just isn’t true. But maybe…just maybe, if we teach him about the power of the world within, and the power of his thinking, he can steer clear of some of that.

So I will teach him to greet each day with love in his heart, to persist until he succeeds and to live each day to the fullest. I will teach him to master his emotions, to laugh at the world, to be of value and to give value. I will teach him to be in action and to know that he is nature’s greatest miracle. I will teach him to be kind and loving to all others and that “In HIM we live and move and have our being”, so always keep God, the universal mind, first and foremost.

I will remind him that he is whole, perfect, strong, powerful, loving, harmonious and happy.

And the most powerful way for me to do that is to live it myself. And so I shall.

 

 

One More Day – MKMMA Week 18

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As my mom got older she would read the obituaries every morning. She said she was looking for people she knew. I thought it was an awful habit and depressing too. I figured I’d hear about someone close to me passing away from a friend or family member so I wouldn’t need to look at the obituaries.

So now, part of our MKMMA homework is to read a couple of obituaries every day. Then ask myself the following question…What would that person give to change places with me and have just one more day?

Crap. I hate reading obituaries. But, I’m committed to the program and I trust the process. So I read…Ruth H., died at 104. She finished second place in a high school public speaking contest. One of the judges told her that she would have won first place but the top prize had to go to a boy.

Marilyn K. was 80. We graduated from the same high school. She founded a contact lens business, was two term president of the Sacramento Children’s home and a founding member of Los Amigos. She was on the Del Paso Country Club board of directors, a Junior League member, two ski clubs and an elite golf club.

Then Boneta J. She was only 61. Had kids, grandkids and lots of family that will miss her smile, laugh and generous heart.

Okay. So now I’m kind of interested in these people’s lives. Some have done amazing things in their lifetime. It’s pretty cool. These are individuals who left their mark on the world in many different ways. But back to the question…What would that person give to change places with me and have just one more day?

The question itself confuses me. Is it something about MY Life that they would want to have for just one more day OR is it just having one more day alive? I think the question is meant for me to look at MY Life. Am I stepping up and creating an extraordinary life that someone would want to have?

Geez, I don’t know. If I could have one more day I’d give up everything to just be with the people I love…I’m struggling with this one…what do you think?

The Art of Thinking. MKMMA Week 17

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The art of thinking.

Have you ever considered your ability to think as an art?
As a fairly new artist I spend time focusing on the image of what I’m painting. I think about what colors to mix together to get just the right shade, value and depth. Then the brush strokes. Are the edges soft or hard. Where is the dark. Where is the light. The smallest touch of paint in the perfect place will make all the difference. I’m still learning and my paintings take dozens of hours of focused attention.
Now, can you imagine giving that much attention to your thinking?
Thousands of thoughts pass through our minds every day…spouse, kids, grand-kids, aging parents, work, customers, emails, Facebook, twitter, food, sleep, friends, exercise, how do I look, how do I feel, school, Angry Birds, baby shower, am I doing okay, jewelry, clothes, texting, business partners, the weather, the economy, our next president, do these jeans make my butt look big…Many are important…some aren’t, and some are just plain unnecessary. It can be overwhelming and exhausting!
Then all of a sudden, one catches your attention. Stops you in your tracks. Is it actually worthy of your attention? Will it empower your goals? It sticks around for awhile. Your insight and intuition gives you the opportunity to play with the thought before you commit to it. YES. Like the artist you give it your focused attention. You see the details in your mind. You feel passionate about it, you love it, you dream about it, you talk about it. It moves you in ways that you’ve never been moved before. Your actions are new. Your mind is clear. You relax. The pathway is set. Your subconscious mind goes to work. Your desire is in harmony with the Universal Mind…
And so it is.

Cool Runnings – MKMMA Week 14

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4 habits of persistence…the Hero’s Journey…A burning desire…A definite purpose…Continuous action…Protect your mind from negative influences and suggestions…An alliance.

I’ll never to be able to watch movies the same way!

All of these were present in the movie Cool Runnings, and their ‘dream of being in the Olympics’ came true. That’s what we like to see in movies…happy endings, right? We want the Hero to win! In the past I would have chalked it up to a good story, after all it’s a movie, it’s supposed to entertain us. But if we follow the 4 habits of persistence isn’t a happy ending available to us all? We want to see the ordinary person rise to a great accomplishment because we know deep down that we are that person too. There is something you want in life, something you want to be…the question is, do you have a burning desire to achieve it? Are you willing to ‘pay the price’? Wouldn’t it be worth it? I’ve been reflecting on these questions for myself. The answers are not as easy as I would have thought.

American author, Henry David Thoreau wrote “The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.”

Despair – Loss of hope, hopelessness – To lose, give up or be without hope.

Well, that’s not my future. So I choose the Hero’s journey and I’m guessing you do too.